Ever felt like curling up into a ball the moment someone points a camera at you? You’re not alone! So many people tell me they're "awkward" in front of a camera—honestly, if I had a dollar for each time, I’d be sipping cocktails at a swim-up bar in Fiji! But here's the thing: you don’t have to be naturally photogenic. Let’s myth-bust that right now. The secret? It's all about finding your personal brand avatar.
Step into Your Personal Brand Avatar
Think of it like acting. You're not bringing all of you into the photoshoot—just the best, most confident version of yourself. Imagine stepping into the shoes of this person: someone who radiates the energy you want for your brand. You’re still you, but with a spotlight on the elements you need for the photos.
Compartmentalization Is Key
Being in front of the camera can feel unnatural, and guess what? That’s completely okay. You’re not supposed to feel comfortable right away! It’s a skill that can be learned over time. Compartmentalize the fear, the self-consciousness, and let your avatar take center stage. It’s like saying, “Okay, this part of me is going to show up today,” while the anxious part gets to hang back.
Pre-Visualization
If you’re filled with anxiety about the shoot, try a little mental rehearsal. Visualize that confident avatar walking into the session, not you hiding in a corner. Let that piece of you shine—it can make the experience much smoother.
The Photographer's Job
You don’t need to know how to pose or hit flawless angles—that’s my job! Staring into the camera and wondering what to do with your hands? Totally normal. But the right photographer will guide you into flattering light, help you find your best angles, and suggest easy, no-fuss poses. It's all about making you look your best without stress.
Choose a Photographer You Trust
Of course, choose a photographer whose work you love, but more importantly, choose one you like. You should feel comfortable, connected, and confident. Recently, someone told me that after just five minutes, they felt like they were chatting with an old friend. That’s the kind of relationship that helps capture authentic, relaxed images.
Remember, it’s okay to feel camera shy. But with the right mindset, and a photographer who’s got your back, you’ll be nailing those shots in no time!
